I like honesty in people, straight-forwardness and enjoy being with people that have witty humor. I believe that in order for love or romance to flourish in relationships today, both people have to be compatible and in the same emotional cycle. But what I have discovered is that being in the same 'mood' is very important for any relationship to last (even if its friendship). Mental compatibility boosts the physical cycle, but without emotion it cannot sustain a solid relationship, you can only go so far, eventually you need to talk, eventually you need to feel, eventually you need to connect, so if today is too important for you and you are unsure about you, your needs and your desires, this will not last. I have observed too many people that have bounced from partner to partner on this site, focusing only on today and then wondering why they can never find something that goes beyond tomorrow. Looking For: I am usually attracted to somewhat dark, powerful, and passionate men. For some odd reason I like men with "layers"--one who has depth and is intriguing enough to want to make me want to discover him. I don't rather like slackers, passengers in character and mama boys. If you want to contact me then you have to send me email, I am not a full member.