How did I stumble HERE

I am a proud father of 3 beautiful children, who are my world. However I would like to share the larger universe with someone else too, if you know what I mean. My friends are of quality and not quantity and are very much part of my family life. I am very easygoing but tend to be more on the quiet side around new people initially. I am very black and white. I believe that I can look in the mirror and know that I am looking at a good person. I am starting to get deep so I will stop here!!! Otherwise without sounding cliche. I love the water. Spend my free time fishing however winters coming up so would be great to trade that in for someone to spend some time with :)