Ok...this time I will make it pure and simple. I want a GENTLEMAN in my life that will give me things that MOST women desire. I stress the word most only because many (men and woman) have different perceptions, ideals or images of what they think they want and what they really go after. I want the things that are free!! LOVE, ADMIRATION, TRUST, LOYALTY AND MOST OF ALL RESPECT...from one human being to another. I am happy with who I am and what I have attained. I am an ASSET to someone not a LIABILITY. I have traveled alot and would love to continue to do so with the RIGHT person. I am educated, smart, funny and I have a great career. Please ,this man whoever you are, must have goals...short term and long term. My short term goal is to find my soulmate soon! and my long term goal is to live a Happy Healthy life with him and a family. Family means a lot to me...and they will aways be a part of my life. So if you are still looking to play games and not act your age please just move along! I do believe that people over the age of 35 should not only have stability in their life but should know what they want and be happy with themselves. There is a point in time when you do need to realize that the bars, clubs woman, men, sport cars, the gym, and money are not the most important things in life. We all spend the early part of our lives making ourselves a priority. Now its time to grow up and make some else one! So please if you think you fit the above..lets go!