looking for a man with a big squishy heart and a huge brain

I am a considerate, caring and focused person. I have a strong work ethic, but my family and friends are first and foremost in my life. I am curious about how things and people operate. I love to read. I play bridge regularly. The qualities I am most drawn to in a partner are kindness, intelligence, honesty and thoughtfulness. I am looking for a man who is educated and accomplished and who is passionate about his avocation; someone who treats people respectfully but never obsequiously, someone with a positive disposition, but is not jaded by his past experiences - And a little introspection and humor also go a mighty long way!