I'm willing to make the effort if you are, as well.

No matter what is written here, at the end of the day it doesn't mean much. You can only start to understand a person by meeting them and spend time together with them. As my headline says "I'm willing to make the effort if you are, as well." - It takes a lot of effort by two people to make a relationship work! I am willing to put in that effort to get to know you. Are you willing?