Where are all the 'normal' women?

What's up with everyone? People have forgotten the basic principles; communication, respect, manners. I don't need an apomenin or a fantasmenin just someone who is level-headed and can hold a decent conversation; someone who has some class, though not a snob; who looks after themselves and cares for others. I am well-travelled and cultured. I am down to earth and laid-back but smart enough to know life is to be taken seriously. I love sports and I enjoy adventure holidays. I'm the perfect gentleman when needed and wild when desired! I studied film and media and went to film school in Los Angeles, where I lived for 2 years. I would love to go back as I haven't been since I left. I am willing to relocate for the right lady though it also depends where. I am a keen snowboarder and scuba diver and go to the mountains and the beach at least once a year. I'm not looking for a fling or a ONS. Cheers x