To Each is own...

I believe in self determination, and allowing others the freedom to be who they are. Everything in moderation including moderation. I consider myself to be polite, funny, quirky, driven, and reliable. I am also tall & have nice blue eyes. I once had an awkward moment just to see what it felt like (sorry). I would really like to meet somebody nice and trustworthy with a great sense of humor. Chemistry & mutual attraction are important too. I work in downtown NY in finance but reside in the 201, that's right I said it, New Jersey (whaaat??) the BC (Bergen County) and everyday I take a stupidly expensive ferry to work. Sometimes I question my decision to move to NJ then I remember, home is where you pump iron at the gym, and occasionaly dismiss neighbors with barely audible polite hello's. But I like it here. I enjoy the pool at my cheaply built luxury building that a strong wind could take down, and the treadmills at my gym, I also like having a car (not easy living so close to NYC). I like the cool techno music that greets me in my lobby as the well dressed Asian residents talk amongst themselves with occasional high pitched laughs. I just need someone to share all this with. So, if this dream sounds right for you (see my god section in the q&a portion) you come knocky knock on my doorbell and I will bring the funny, don't you worry. Don't you worry. p.s. I like the shaded silhouettes of my would be friends at the bottom of this page.