I am very down to earth. I do not veiw material things as attributes. I try to treat others as I would like to be treated and am learning to 'Put my hat on and go' when I am not treated the same. I enjoy intellectual conversation and/or a good movie, Reading, learning all I can about computers ie; programming and pc security Although I am considered intelligent, I can not spell worth a darn! I've had some ups and some downs and know that what pushes me down will make me all the stronger once I stand up again. I'm cute. I enjoy being a part of another laughing and being happy. I have three wonderful young men and one beautiful daughter. My boys (please don't tell them I called them that!) are off making their own way, one a writer, one working at a major insurance company and the other is trying his best to see how many girlfriends he can get before having to mature and realize it's not the quanity it's the quality that is important. My Daughter, Alexandra is more than something else, her intelligence astounds me at times. As with all of my children I've raised her to know that even tho she is a child she still has her own opinions, I kind of (just a little bit) could not see the sense of her teacher teaching "Freedom of Speach"! :p Oh, the pictures I have uploaded are from a while ago, as soon as I can I will get a more recent one to upload. I gave my camera away because to many times I've been asked inappropriate requests so best not to even have a webcam. Looking For: I am interested in meeting a "man of his word." A man worthy of loyalty and trust. One who can be empathetic, honorable, intellectual, stong minded, yet can put themselves in anothers shoes to be understanding, communication is important also. A man who is good to his Lady can have everything that is important! Oh, one that can set aside his EGO when it is logical to do so. A man with a good sense of humor, who likes to enjoy the small pleasures in life. Must like children as I have my daughter with me. Basically, a Lady in search of a Gentleman.